TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
2 L, H. ]+ u2 C" ]3 u {/ d& j4 E• attend a sleepover
; ` q( P/ T `: h* q• have a playdate8 P- G' B- O5 q
• be in a school play1 e8 n' u, }+ u5 j+ q
• complain about not being in a school play
' R$ w' }5 x2 ^: H• watch TV or play computer games
3 y/ T3 s+ H* W0 t: g• choose their own extracurricular activities
% ^- P3 p! K" M( D2 W u• get any grade less than an A
1 { Y r3 l0 q9 R• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama8 L m2 y1 e' _4 E& c1 z
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
, x- p2 N3 i: Z: g• not play the piano or violin. # K7 A- n1 T% n i) u |
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。1 x& _2 i$ k1 u' C2 e# o
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。% _; J) p! F6 w( n$ R$ \1 s
到底何为成功?
5 H: ]$ R: p6 B; [8 L* `' W“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么? R/ s7 N3 V2 a
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
( j% ?& X8 ]' a" f& m做到这些又能怎样呢?
: G4 r, ~- ~" `0 c) `! { G3 d我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。- G8 O, x1 Q$ {5 U0 e; l) x
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
8 q6 D4 f$ e& `, j. h$ Pnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
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我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?+ N; h" a3 x4 Z2 Q2 P. J
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