TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
% w' b9 W1 b; T% [- i& \- C+ K• attend a sleepover5 h6 |# h9 d3 v- F0 W ]
• have a playdate
2 s0 C' P3 m. c: [4 W, o" v• be in a school play
) N$ m9 m+ G! o6 [& b• complain about not being in a school play
# p, ~* ?6 q, \2 P: C9 \ ~$ ~• watch TV or play computer games# S/ ^( f4 D8 }; a$ L# y0 P
• choose their own extracurricular activities
9 {$ B5 F$ g; x9 v0 z0 j) T• get any grade less than an A% r- ~$ P" t1 M6 v: Q+ ^
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
0 \ O5 E& z: b6 D9 C' @• play any instrument other than the piano or violin" J9 A4 b; E. j5 v/ N! \+ w
• not play the piano or violin. 1 N+ x9 P, W( A/ ?: c3 S. N: @
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
3 r( V* ^5 i' z$ n' _/ P我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。% x1 q9 D) f" U, g! a1 g
到底何为成功?
8 \3 D, s' k# h1 ^“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?9 E0 d% |* ^/ [- y3 N& ^
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
- [. C4 l: S5 ]( w6 O做到这些又能怎样呢?
1 F1 C6 A4 v0 o3 o. p我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
0 l& P# k) d+ ^% G9 g W! D/ F在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
9 m+ h/ Q, X$ K2 L& Nnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? - l ]" L ^$ ], d; n) m7 j3 O, t
NO WAY!
& I7 x$ a* D n8 ]8 x我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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