TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:) E1 |5 N1 l# y* L% ?" ~3 f7 K: ^. j# Q
• attend a sleepover, C' {' O5 M- X' A
• have a playdate) p5 S3 M) }! }( e. Q* `8 |1 ?
• be in a school play2 J0 W7 J9 R' y* w! E. u1 q1 y
• complain about not being in a school play) Z: C$ Y- h# z0 x+ Q- U
• watch TV or play computer games
2 t" l% f9 [* j' B• choose their own extracurricular activities
# w" g( n6 r5 P }# y; y. m1 |• get any grade less than an A$ ^& Z( }5 b2 I ^
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
& r( S$ l; W0 o% u4 m! _• play any instrument other than the piano or violin8 O7 t, {4 `! F: h: U
• not play the piano or violin. ) y }1 w. Y3 z0 f; |+ k
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
% |, m1 _7 G' @9 g3 _( [9 F0 D我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
% F0 B7 r, k* {# Y5 y% C到底何为成功?
$ u) P* }9 o4 V+ J- o, X“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
! b' H+ N9 |2 v( q! W. c: d- V"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?# z: {& R) r2 f9 T: V( j' t$ Q
做到这些又能怎样呢?
+ R) z+ `+ ~- _. r我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。# S: N. O+ e* z. l+ I2 u$ b
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
7 |9 e2 `, z: ]3 d B, Unever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
n! |. B- g+ r! ]NO WAY!& ]. [% W6 _9 i: J# ?
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?4 c& A8 w! c3 j- P
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