TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:7 {# I6 _3 K0 u/ A1 u
• attend a sleepover
, ?8 c4 u% L$ ~• have a playdate
- g. U0 \2 H7 f' _• be in a school play
- D8 p/ p# O( y; |• complain about not being in a school play
8 R1 Y- V8 `) S3 E/ j% _! n• watch TV or play computer games
: }* ]; o1 T; ~+ m# `; r' {! @• choose their own extracurricular activities
9 V5 @2 H. R+ Q) ]• get any grade less than an A
0 F# E9 C9 w/ d# Y; B• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama" C& h4 o! `/ M1 {
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
B$ e/ P- N& {• not play the piano or violin. ! v+ n3 Y. A, e% Y- l2 ]
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。0 |& S2 k h, |1 v7 P! h1 W
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
* `3 D5 h p \5 O O% g, j到底何为成功?, o: f# u, J7 D
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
& A" }0 X$ _+ F1 H% _; v8 V) E"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
9 i; Y, k, ^% o" T$ n做到这些又能怎样呢?: Y1 r Z; [ l+ j+ P4 D o+ y1 `
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
U/ w" ^6 D: n5 `: z, z6 K. ?! G& Q在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
F+ X' Y0 e. h3 u7 lnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
% ]* B$ a5 A) y2 f/ Z- q# v- WNO WAY!
( _3 z* r/ @4 U" h我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?3 F2 \% E9 o" U4 E
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