TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
2 K9 \2 n$ m, h: [6 u3 }; v) ]: f# |• attend a sleepover7 _/ ^/ m6 }" Y# ~( m
• have a playdate
2 ~" d, i- T* M( Y4 `6 e• be in a school play
; O% e) W# T" Q+ P• complain about not being in a school play
$ }6 i* o- j+ m6 H9 Z5 y• watch TV or play computer games
5 ]" A& e2 ?8 g) S- e4 f• choose their own extracurricular activities
L4 V+ Y" ^: g5 R8 E. ]; @6 L/ q3 Z• get any grade less than an A
7 Z: C9 Q3 F C# R% X2 o% g• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama; V% ?9 `% w0 u" ^
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin. ~7 s, r( d* O- w p; g
• not play the piano or violin.
, r: Q( ~! M; L6 U& G) t8 \1 {看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
; S( \- W1 @4 ~2 q我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。! f2 L. g$ m, N: i! a; j
到底何为成功?: }' \; h; n) A( o: _
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
3 Q2 h) w8 @+ F( e8 m) P, H"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
% o6 n* J1 r- p3 F做到这些又能怎样呢?0 H0 \7 j& d% j; p
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
6 J, P+ w6 U% G6 ]5 h在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
) ~) L' V. r" J+ {- knever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
0 t" y; V1 o; @. _* M, {4 L& dNO WAY!* ? l( m5 U: G" L: O' z8 U$ W
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?" ]5 a& _: M3 g* \0 Y
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