TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
- _( Y( c9 p: G, y: K• attend a sleepover
/ V D2 Y1 C4 w( ?" b6 M• have a playdate3 P( s# v% r3 t# e; D5 `8 C6 K
• be in a school play
; @( c) D6 y, q1 u' O• complain about not being in a school play
9 B. Y1 v( f0 J0 q2 K/ E6 x8 B1 m9 C: \• watch TV or play computer games
% b& _; y1 P/ W' U• choose their own extracurricular activities3 V; T" m2 u' F$ _7 g# Q1 S% I
• get any grade less than an A f L c' p6 @2 F* }" m6 T/ ~
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
! ?5 I# x5 e4 [! }0 \# i# T• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
4 e* ~! H( ^' a9 k7 L• not play the piano or violin. , d: V9 u. p% }; H1 C
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
. B9 A& J- \9 D5 g我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。: {$ @( s: w t, X2 x
到底何为成功?2 h, q( ^. w7 ^3 b! R. F! _/ ~
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?0 q0 {4 ~4 b* R$ z0 j
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?; P8 k9 e" N w6 ~4 b
做到这些又能怎样呢?* J- c. w% Z" Q0 t
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
9 }& |# w" r$ Q5 p; V; l7 x- ~5 U在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。/ w3 M6 a1 ^, y3 V
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? - D2 {1 M" j; V$ Z
NO WAY!' E) r1 d5 t, i b7 U; y+ C) E+ V
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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