TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:' e. s ]5 y, I7 j' [) m: W. c
• attend a sleepover* a. H9 \+ G! V2 a+ C. O2 t
• have a playdate
6 n6 ~& R# A. c2 v& q6 ]. U) u6 Q• be in a school play# c1 _) |. w5 g$ k, ?9 a; m7 c
• complain about not being in a school play
) ]0 N. v. v/ b9 K• watch TV or play computer games3 x" _5 r7 O. C7 _4 a5 J+ K
• choose their own extracurricular activities
3 [" O( L8 \ J, _* U• get any grade less than an A
6 t" l/ ^/ B+ t7 q" c2 g3 R• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama' K7 m: G( c: X4 @, v5 y& P
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin+ s8 A; H3 O9 J' N f
• not play the piano or violin.
- h) c' ~# m# A看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
* \3 h5 n3 {; t; C我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
1 V9 f, Y6 g' M: H2 M# O$ x2 x7 {5 p到底何为成功?
9 U7 V% |) v" A8 e" Z% h' k“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?/ I8 X' z0 ~+ _1 p& ~* H6 e
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?7 a) G( z) Z6 c" B
做到这些又能怎样呢?
# J; l$ [' F6 Q7 E. d d. |我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。6 c/ ^% ~% G# M0 G- W. E
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。: u8 ]: t/ y7 g6 s
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? ! h& @: f1 @0 a+ d8 m
NO WAY!
/ W, N h2 F6 P- _5 W. B我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?0 M- ]8 m# \* i/ x C
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