TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
& D/ T. H7 i4 M; `, x• attend a sleepover& E$ g1 h# b4 `$ b
• have a playdate
; V, g6 e" y: ]0 x% D8 x• be in a school play
2 P2 j4 i0 r& A0 P* F• complain about not being in a school play
2 c, R2 a/ I+ }# b) J' k• watch TV or play computer games& P& b# Y) A# F8 v% a+ S
• choose their own extracurricular activities; \% T* s. V1 u2 w( s
• get any grade less than an A
8 S/ h) }! W2 x; [• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
8 e: G! D* r% z& ]' ?( s• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
3 O4 P8 x1 s* B! x7 f3 h4 f& ^ r• not play the piano or violin.
* @% \/ t1 k* i% c/ n# m看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。- L- F$ p& l- Y# k& X
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。/ j" o% q" c0 v, Y" @3 C
到底何为成功?
6 \- }: w8 E, F$ \5 U! E, o; l* I“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
! ~! A: t) ]; K: p" t+ u: ["always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
! w$ K/ d* t7 [8 i) t. Z做到这些又能怎样呢?
$ c: _# v# W6 r B6 W$ a我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
: U3 | {% m$ J1 o- ^在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。' v6 z4 a0 j- X- y+ I! k
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play?
1 p+ e+ u7 M6 e8 {NO WAY!
' ]" i- C K. X+ z! G0 D" R( Y我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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