TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:! E6 i0 D' W/ x- z
• attend a sleepover
2 M. o# x h; O A# l- a0 G• have a playdate1 N7 v4 [3 w( j
• be in a school play
- o4 t; W* V* I! ~; u• complain about not being in a school play4 X. \( G$ w; H( d
• watch TV or play computer games7 S( ^+ O9 B$ q
• choose their own extracurricular activities
7 H" w; g. e* H( Y! u/ A6 R0 ?1 \• get any grade less than an A
5 v; c+ |( a j• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama# C4 |( O& {% M2 `$ X- }
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
1 d0 X: U' ^4 I• not play the piano or violin. " g# I6 a$ |: M% @2 w
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。' T, i/ G% d- S# A
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
. h5 L$ c8 K, Y$ p2 G到底何为成功?: l1 W: g u8 k& ^& v6 E8 P
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?0 u7 b+ O, C5 b3 g( @. d) h: u
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?) ~5 i O2 O S9 N4 ~6 }
做到这些又能怎样呢?
- v+ R4 N+ V5 M! M+ b我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。' r! X% H7 a7 E5 Q/ ~& A
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。; E3 l4 h8 @+ _6 X# e
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 2 [8 S4 L1 i. l1 ^/ `* l& ?! Y
NO WAY!
3 j7 e( @1 f4 ^1 h. h我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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