TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:
7 k$ C, r3 C. u. \+ N# ~ S• attend a sleepover
% H' B& |4 l( e• have a playdate8 n( {% P1 H, [, d6 a
• be in a school play& `2 @ ` j, h9 j
• complain about not being in a school play6 h0 @/ I3 Y5 m; P. B8 f* @
• watch TV or play computer games( p4 \' w: b) h }; O; U
• choose their own extracurricular activities8 k- I1 M. s: }5 q% X
• get any grade less than an A
6 }/ t0 b6 q4 o, J! N/ l• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama/ L, q& ^8 u0 U" V+ w
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin6 m7 K$ a; B/ p j, \2 r& I5 o. I
• not play the piano or violin.
0 p/ s4 M6 f( @2 _4 L5 _. F8 L! n4 p0 ?看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
7 D- g: h8 L; o5 O6 l4 Y" G, y我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
+ c/ O2 U/ s% t0 V到底何为成功?& I4 E2 e7 d! J7 M
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?
% e% H6 w; o5 u"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
5 M' ?7 M* c: ^: b7 r做到这些又能怎样呢? M) `8 z4 |- d6 X& d+ h5 q% ^. o
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。0 x. |" A) C( q) L
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
& t& H; ~1 l$ Y, unever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 0 z: s# l o; Y" I7 e4 O
NO WAY!
7 j- l4 d, d. k. p我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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