TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:9 P' z0 V( h( t6 T
• attend a sleepover
6 R7 D9 ?2 m$ G# x* v• have a playdate* [: N' n! {: A* Y
• be in a school play
# F6 G5 R! P3 g9 j* F7 c1 ^* W6 D0 p• complain about not being in a school play+ N; D/ f( a S( G' `" Z& Z+ s/ ?
• watch TV or play computer games
! ^5 E. r9 k1 B• choose their own extracurricular activities
* E0 e6 R8 t4 W. N) Q• get any grade less than an A" q# l& s0 z. h1 O5 j& U$ a: S9 x
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
+ Z+ J, S. |& t4 ~5 G" N7 G6 z• play any instrument other than the piano or violin1 q s' ^4 K8 g: u; e# t; L
• not play the piano or violin. ; m* I2 u& C- O
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。5 {1 i4 T8 X/ \* p) B; b
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
2 h; P+ R/ H' y5 a+ t7 m' E3 p到底何为成功?) V6 }- j" i+ B6 L0 { ?8 j4 r
“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?" Z; N4 G G2 i/ I$ W
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?! j& R! p4 Y* z) C( V, @1 }
做到这些又能怎样呢?; {6 x$ E) g+ f# M& [
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
9 t3 I: R2 q1 N8 j' {在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
. G$ \0 q9 \% I$ c2 O. Jnever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? : }8 b, f, {+ j" A
NO WAY!
* N8 I# c' b4 D5 _我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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