TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:/ q& D# [# q' S3 {- L1 h
• attend a sleepover
; q6 q5 X7 N( T9 I& f• have a playdate+ p/ U! q( l& ]4 I! u5 v! y
• be in a school play
8 m6 `. r" z9 T% J. ]5 \/ F• complain about not being in a school play: m" Z5 D0 j: n" A
• watch TV or play computer games' e! J4 o; @! O! n" E6 z% ?
• choose their own extracurricular activities
0 }1 }2 H. B8 w+ m1 ^• get any grade less than an A
( M7 U( H6 e& c; g! F6 S) H S# ~! @* g• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama- f+ f2 f' P0 { m
• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
/ H- P) `! M8 n: i' ^5 u6 {1 I• not play the piano or violin. ; f. N, U% c* R& s5 Q+ T
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。& u1 P- Q& n# j( D! f1 ]( c9 w
我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。
* D& t+ `0 h' s# v1 `7 u Z* Q到底何为成功?
g1 N0 v N( K“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?2 d4 P* Z3 q; I) @1 @
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
+ H, w; y* Z& x- V. u9 F/ f. h* J做到这些又能怎样呢?: A2 g. Z# H# Z; |* r [; `+ W5 X
我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。3 k" T% A$ d1 j
在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。+ b7 z( n3 e, L- I, o, m- _: k
never attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? 7 }* Z- g" {3 P0 |6 r/ a% ]1 v
NO WAY!
4 N1 v3 v% z# f( o, D我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?/ M. r( u: q2 ~/ M, [4 M( ?) e5 {
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