TA的每日心情 | 奋斗 2022-2-8 01:13 |
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签到天数: 171 天 [LV.7]分神
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never allowed to do:" g# M D+ R$ }% G
• attend a sleepover
" ]/ x* L1 M! O5 [• have a playdate; o; F9 X2 h. [+ p* p' x
• be in a school play9 I% x/ I) U8 [- e, K0 w% R
• complain about not being in a school play; c8 Y; b! P0 s3 A% l8 r
• watch TV or play computer games
0 U- A% V( u! t* [5 ^* M, ]+ t• choose their own extracurricular activities" j$ e$ M- x# F# V
• get any grade less than an A$ z& D& k7 H" y1 W+ P5 j. F
• not be the No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama
. h% u% N* q6 L0 l# w5 B7 K• play any instrument other than the piano or violin
: ~9 h* {1 ]+ R& W" G• not play the piano or violin. , H3 J9 q! L% C K; q0 b
看到她给出的never allowed to do list,我简直无语,绝对无法苟同。
9 U! m. A8 o; f. s) B" P0 ]我是无论如何也做不到,也不想做到。/ @1 i' ?# X& ]+ k
到底何为成功?
5 o! @9 k r: E8 s+ T' B7 K$ {“always be No. 1 student in every subject except gym and drama“ 就是成功么?: Z' r c9 s) d5 j7 d
"always get any grade more than an A"就是成功么?
. W5 l& q3 o+ @3 R9 n9 D# s做到这些又能怎样呢?
! i5 N( y" e: z/ n. y) `) T" k我就不信一个人可以一辈子永远上紧了发条,永不停歇。
4 X& q9 C5 K: h S8 D/ b: h在我看来,作为父母能够做到尽自己可能为孩子创造一个好的环境,能够保证让孩子的天赋不被埋没,能够帮助孩子设定目标,指导他不断通过自己努力取得进步就足够了。
5 {! I+ M) X2 O1 H% E8 ~* Unever attend a sleepover? never have a playdate? never be in a school play? never complain about not being in a school play? $ R6 I6 j6 w- p# m
NO WAY!/ O. A1 w" ?; ~) Q
我实在想不出,这样方式培养出来的孩子以后如何跟别人打交道?
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