昨天与二丫头一起去看了两部电影，其中一部是“ The Perks of Being a Wallflower ”。二丫头女读过这本书，很喜欢。电影拍得也非常不错，真实而感人。虽然说的都是青少年的事情，但成年人也值得一看。一是因为我们也年轻过，二是因为它能帮助我们更好地了解我们的孩子。喜欢“ The Perks of Being a Wallflower ”中的一些 Quotes ，它们让我心有感触。我把它们下载到这里，与大家分享。 1."why do the people we love the most hurt us the most, it isbecause we accept the love we think we deserve. ” 2. “So, this is my life. And I want you to know that I am both happy and sad and I'm still trying to figure out how that could be.” 3. “It's much easier to not know things sometimes. Things change and friends leave. And life doesn't stop for anybody. I wanted to laugh. Or maybe get mad. Or maybe shrug at how strange everybody was, especially me. I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and than make the choice to share it with other people. You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. You just can't. You have to do things. I'm going to do what I want to do. I'm going to be who I really am. And I'm going to figure out what that is. And we could all sit around and wonder and feel bad about each other and blame a lot of people for what they did or didn't do or what they didn't know. I don't know. I guess there could always be someone to blame. It's just different. Maybe it's good to put things in perspective, but sometimes, I think that the only perspective is to really be there. Because it's okay to feel things. I was really there. And that was enough to make me feel infinite. I feel infinite.” 4. “And in that moment, I swear we were infinite.” 5. “I would die for you. But I won't live for you.” 6. “So, I guess we are who we are for alot of reasons. And maybe we'll never know most of them. But even if we don't have the power to choose where we come from, we can still choose where we go from there. We can still do things. And we can try to feel okay about them.” 7. “I think that if I ever have kids, and they are upset, I won't tell them that people are starving in China or anything like that because it wouldn't change the fact that they were upset. And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't really change the fact that you have what you have.” 8. “I am very interested and fascinated how everyone loves each other, but no one really likes each other.” 9. “It's just that I don't want to be somebody's crush. If somebody likes me, I want them to like the real me, not what they think I am. And I don't want them to carry it around inside. I want them to show me, so I can feel it too.” 10. “Enjoy it. Because it's happening.” 11. “And I thought about how many people have loved those songs. And how many people got through a lot of bad times because of those songs. And how many people enjoyed good times with those songs. And how much those songs really mean. I think it would be great to have written one of those songs. I bet if I wrote one of them, I would be very proud. I hope the people who wrote those songs are happy. I hope they feel it's enough. I really do because they've made me happy. And I'm only one person.” 12. “This moment will just be another story someday.” 13. “And all the books you've read have been read by other people. And all the songs you've loved have been heard by other people. And that girl that's pretty to you is pretty to other people. and that if you looked at these facts when you were happy, you would feel great because you are describing 'unity'.” 14. “I walk around the school hallways and look at the people. I look at the teachers and wonder why they're here. If they like their jobs. Or us. And I wonder how smart they were when they were fifteen. Not in a mean way. In a curious way. It's like looking at all the students and wondering who's had their heart broken that day, and how they are able to cope with having three quizzes and a book report due on top of that. Or wondering who did the heart breaking. And wondering why.” 15. “It's strange because sometimes, I read a book, and I think I am the people in the book.” 16. “He's a wallflower. You see things. You keep quiet about them. And you understand.” 17. “I walked over to the hill where we used to go and sled. There were a lot of little kids there. I watched them flying. Doing jumps and having races. And I thought that all those little kids are going to grow up someday. And all of those little kids are going to do the things that we do. And they will all kiss someone someday. But for now, sledding is enough. I think it would be great if sledding were always enough, but it isn't.” 18. “Sometimes people use thought to not participate in life.” 19. “I think the idea is that every person has to live for his or her own life and then make the choice to share it with other people. Maybe that is what makes people "participate.” 20. “And even if somebody else has it much worse, that doesn't really change the fact that you have what you have. Good and bad.” 21. “The inside jokes weren't jokes anymore. They had become stories. Nobody brought up the bad names or the bad times. And nobody felt sad as long as we could postpone tomorrow with more nostalgia. ” 22. “I don't even remember the season. I just remember walking between them and feeling for the first time that I belonged somewhere.” 23. “It's just hard to see a friend hurt this much. Especially when you can't do anything except 'be there.' I just want to make him stop hurting, but I can't. So I just follow him around whenever he wants to show me his world.” 24. “I just hope I remember to tell my kids that they are as happy as I look in my old photographs. And I hope that they believe me.” http://infinitinb.net/COFFdD0xMzU0NDc3MTA0Jmk9OTguMjQ3LjE0NC4yMiZ1PVNvbmdzL3YxL2ZhaW50UUMvOTkvNzg0NmI1ZTA1Y2ZhMmFmZTM0ZjUwZThlMGM5MzhhOTkubXAzJm09NmE1YzMyODM2NWY4ZTJhYzVlNTQ3MzIxMmZkOGJkMWEmdj1saXN0ZW4mbj1DaGFybGllJ3MlMjBMYXN0JTIwTGV0dGVyJTIwKE1pY2hhZWwlMjBCcm9vaykmcz2159Ow1K3J+SZwPXM=.mp3 Charlie's Last Letter --- from movie 《The Perks of Being a Wallflower》
大闺女学校Filming专业的学生昨日在校拍电影，闺女打电话给我，兴奋得不得了，说大大过了一把拍照瘾。照片里全是朝气蓬勃八九点钟太阳般的年轻人（有不少是real actors and actresses ），真令人羡慕！我对闺女说: 现在正是“the time ofyour life”，好好享受吧! with Jackson Hinden and Sarah Yarkin with Alexander De Koning with Sarah Yarkin with Sarah Yarkin with Countney Welbon . with Sarah Yarkin and Becca Noble with Andrew Brown and Courtney Welbon This girl was beautiful, so I took superfluous photos of her (not creepy at all). — with Sarah Yarkin. with Becca Noble Time Travel 这部电影是为高校电影节准备的其中一部，大闺女说其它系的同学也可参与拍摄。 大闺女很想参加，但功课忙，所以要看情况而定。 http://mul1.tximg.cn/music/group/bbs/mp3/32/100314/1268565262363.mp3
刚看完电影《People Like Us》，电影主人公Sam的父亲曾告诉他6条人生经验，觉得蛮有意思，搬到这里与大家分享。 1. If you like something because you think other people are gonna like it, it's a sure bet no one will. 2.Most doors in the world are closed, so if you find one that you want to get into, you damn well better have an interesting knock. 3. Everything that you think is important isn't, everything that you think is unimportant is. 4. Don't shit where you eat (mataphorically speaking). 5.Lean into it. --- It means that the outcome doesn't matter, what matter is that you are there for it. Whatever "it" is, good or bad. 6. Never sleep with someone who has more problems than you. 这6条人生经验里有2条有些偏颇，但也不无道理。俺最喜欢第5条，很符合俺“走过、路过、不错过”的口号（俺6年前就有这个口号了 ）。我们总是做着当时自认为对的事情，对结果，我们无能为力，“活过了”才是最要的。所以，结果怎么样由不得我们，关键在于人生体验。第4条也不错，俺有时候一激动，一不小心就会在自己吃饭的地方拉屎（譬如与 LD 讲道理），这个以后要注意。
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