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标题:
闲话女人与酒
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我是藤藤
时间:
2015-5-26 16:26
标题:
闲话女人与酒
曾经以为,酒是专门用来给男人们享用的东西,跟女人是不沾边的。随着岁月更迭,见识略长,却发现女人与酒有着千丝万缕的联系。
联系无关爱恨。其实,生活中,多数女人是不喜欢酒的。尤其是家中男人好客、好饮而酒量不大,却喜欢广交天下朋友,隔三差五地与朋友相聚,聚必有酒,有酒必醉,不醉不归。与这样的男人生活在一起的女人,时不时地要在半夜三更起来开门,迎接大醉而归的男人,然后为了他的生命安全和身体健康,不离左右地端茶倒水忙活半宿时,她能对酒怀有好感吗?不把家里的酒瓶子摔了,就算很有修养了。这样的女人,不喜欢酒甚至对酒怀有怨恨情绪,也是可以理解的。
多数情况下,女人与酒的关系就像见不得阳光的情人关系。虽然历史已跨入二十一世纪的门槛,人们的思想越来越解放,但公开承认自己喜欢酒、能喝酒的女人,还得有相当大的勇气。即使有点小酒量,喝个半斤八两不在话下的女人,也会碍于性别、形象、场合等原因,在酒桌上是能推就推,能少喝绝不多喝。断不会像男人那样,仗着自己酒量大就挽袖子下架,豪气冲天地让人把酒斟满,痛痛快快一饮而尽的。女人即使喝,也是蹙额皱眉、半推半就,一副娇羞为难、我见犹怜的模样。不要嘲笑她们的扭捏作态,只需记得:这,就是女人!一直主张,在喝酒的问题上,不要跟女人一般见识。女人喝酒,纯粹是兴之所至,要看当时的心情和气氛。喝多喝少,醉与不醉,是女人的自由,与他人无关。
女人中,也有好酒而毫不掩饰的。这样的女人,性格豪爽的,喝的是一个痛快;多愁善感的,图的是一份情调。两种性情,一样招人喜爱。一代才女李清照,堪称中国文学史上一颗璀璨的明珠,她非凡超群的才华,让无数人为之倾倒。她的一生,不论是早年的闲适风雅,还是晚年的孤独凄凉,生活中到处弥漫着酒的醇香。“常记溪亭日暮,沉醉不知归路。”“昨夜雨疏风骤,浓睡不消残酒。”“年年雪里,常插梅花醉。”“故乡何处是?忘了除非醉。沉水卧时烧,香消酒未消。”······酒,不仅成就了男性诗仙李白,也为女性词人李清照平添了一份婉约、无穷韵味。所以,女人与酒并非天敌,女人爱酒也无须掩饰。
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